life, love (or lack of), and whatever else my fits my fancy Today is Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Number Blocked. Again.

Nov24

Monday.  November 23rd.  I was having a bad day.  Deadlines got moved up.  Things kept getting piled on my desk.  I managed to cut my chin on the bathroom counter that morning (klutz).  And I'm still fighting with the bank over my money.

I just kept telling myself, "Self... we just have to make it three days this week."

Around lunch time, I received a text message from a number I didn't recognize.  All it said was "hey."  I didn't reply since I didn't know the number and brushed it off as a wrong number.  Then I got another message, "hey.  how are you?  how have you been?"  Same number.  So I text back, "Sorry, but I think you have the wrong number."

"no i don't.  this is ****."  And **** is The Rock.  (If you don't know about my history with The Rock, you can read it here.  Or you can just read about the bitter end here and here.)

My jaw dropped as my blood pressure rose.  I blocked his number for a reason.  Because I didn't want to hear from him anymore.  And then he goes and gets a new number while keeping mine?  Hell no.  So I replied very adult like, "Fuck off."

"look, i know you're probably still mad, but i'd like to see you."

"Well I don't want to see you.  Matter of fact, I don't want to talk to you."

"what do you mean you don't want to talk to me? *really sad face*"

"I mean I don't want to talk to you.  When I slammed the door IN YOUR FACE, it should have been a clue.  So I say for the second time, fuck off."

Number blocked.  Again.

 


posted by
Tue, 11/24/2009 - 8:39am

Is he missing some sort of connection in his brain? Was he dropped on his head as a baby? I honestly don't understand how some men can be so unbelievably dense.


posted by iamalejandra
Tue, 11/24/2009 - 10:04am

OMG. He changes his number and kept yours? WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
And he actually texted *really sad face*?!?! UGH UGH UGH UGH


posted by
Tue, 11/24/2009 - 10:34am

Ok, he must have some brain damage or something. Seriously?? What a loser. So sorry you have to keep dealing with this freak, Star! Sad


posted by
Tue, 11/24/2009 - 11:23am

Oy vey. Good idea to block him. But I'd also be curious as to what he has to say... And now he has shown up at your work?!


posted by
Tue, 11/24/2009 - 2:05pm

lildorothy - I often wonder that myself. About how men can be so dense that is...

iamalejandra - yes, he actually texted '*really sad face*' and I don't think I've ever been more disgusted.

Martini - thanks dear. I'm just hoping after today I got my message through.

Veka - yes, he showed up at work today. I'll have a post on that tomorrow because I don't think I can coherently explain it right now.


posted by
Tue, 11/24/2009 - 3:20pm

Jeez, star....he showed up at your office today?? What do you need to do, get a restraining order to get the message through to him???? Headsmack


posted by
Tue, 11/24/2009 - 5:52pm

Are you kidding me??? He is being ridiculous!!


posted by KB_in_NYC
Tue, 11/24/2009 - 6:46pm

Oh darling, I now get why you've been wanting to bang your head against the wall all week.

I finally caught up on the whole saga and all I can say is, Boy oh boy. What a fuck-head. But here's the thing, if he really cared about you (I mean, about what is best for YOU) then he would respect your feelings enough to not call, to not get in touch, to not stalk you (wow). I presume he's still in his marriage that is supposedly "not working, and hasn't been for years". I know it hurts and makes you feel like crap but really, he is a douche bag coward & not worth your time or your tears.

My advice: get dating again. Fun, light hearted dates with sweet guys. Men who remind you that the Rock is not the standard & that it doesn't always have to be so hard (or ugly)

Of course much easier said than done (isn't it always) but I think you'll get there.

XKB


posted by
Wed, 11/25/2009 - 7:39am

Martini - yes, he showed up at work, but it wasn't to be a stalker. He actually had a business purpose for being there... now if I can only stop it.

sweetpeabrina - I think so too.

KB_in_NYC - I feel the same way. I really want nothing to do with him, but for some reason he won't get out of my life. I have a feeling that I'm something he hasn't been able to 'conquest' yet and won't stop until he does. Which is so damn annoying. You're totally, right, I'll get there. I'm just afraid I may drown first.


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